1.15.2013

Huffington Post Popular News: Death Notification Trainings Grow, Providing Integral Step In The Grieving Process

When Jan Withers' first husband, a U.S. Air Force pilot, died in a plane crash, the man in a military uniform who came to her door nearly refused to tell her the news outright.


"All he would say is, 'he's missing.' I wouldn't listen, and kept asking him what happened. He just wouldn't say he died," recalled Withers. "I wouldn't even sit down with him because I just wanted to find out so badly what happened, every single detail. Finally I got him to say that it was his personal opinion that my husband 'did not make it,' but that he couldn't say anything official until there was an investigation."


The experience has stayed with Withers since it happened 31 years ago and though it was difficult, she believes it would have been harder if the man had not admitted that her husband was likely dead and answered her questions in detail.




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